I Can’t Blame Women Who Date For Financial Support – Ese Eriata

Ese Eriata, a former Big Brother Naija housemate, has shared her thoughts on relationships and the support systems put in place.

The model and actress took to her IG story to bemoan the fate of many who although work hard and make money, have too many bills to deal with with the money earned. She added that she can not blame women who marry or date for financial support.

In her words;

“I’m really tired of being hardworking. I’ve always thought that the more money you have, the more relaxed you should be. But I think that’s lie. Because the more you earn, the more you want. At this point, I can’t even blame those who marry or date for financial support,” Ese wrote.

This is coming after the actress in a previous post spoke on arranged marriage saying the mistake anyone can make is allow their parents chose their spouses as this is a decision many may end up regretting.

“The biggest mistakes you can ever make in your life is letting your parents decide who you should end up with.
How parents always think they know it all because they feel they have there makes me wonder if they realize they are using their clock to set our time. All they want is the best for you and what will favour the family. But they neglect the part where they have to be sure if they what they want for you is what you want for yourself.”

“I hear things like “I am not into my marriage” and when you ask why, you hear things like ‘my parents wanted it”

“Then they console you with ‘don’t worry love will come along the line” shey na from Arik Air or Emirates airlines e go pass come?

That nonsense has to be stop honestly. The most irritating part is when they are specific on the tribe not to bring home like say e no get the tribe wey no dey dey do evil things.”

“What has tribe got to do with someone’s personality? When will our patents know that tribe doesn’t determine a good person? Even your very own town person fit still run you street.”